How do I stop feeling inadequate?

[deleted] · 2019-07-28T09:06:16+00:00

I have 5.5 inches which is IMO small, and the average guy in my country definitely has more (I've seen my teammates dicks in shower lmao)

I honestly just don't care. I use to did before I hit TRT, but now I just don't see it as my problem. If she doesn't like it, she has freedom to fuck off and get another.

With that said you just have to learn how to use it and maybe also work on your game with fingers & tongue. In worst scenario you'l have to get a prostitute and work it out on her. But eventually you'l learn it.

If you are the guy they truly want to have sex with, your size wont matter that much. And if it does, that just means that girl isn't for you anyway and you go get another one.

FILEpwnt3r · 2019-07-28T09:26:18+00:00

Learn frame:

https://www.woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame

YungRichKid · 2019-07-28T09:10:37+00:00

Main reason is from you comparing yourself to others, end that because you are your own man not some follower worried about the next guy, if you don’t like certain aspects of yourself work your very best to improve on them, complaining about shit never got anything done. You can even shoot me a message my man if you want some guidance, always more than glad to help.

thrwy75479 · 2019-07-28T10:28:29+00:00

Female cuttlefish select males based on their size, which excludes smaller male cuttlefish. The giant male cuttlefish will fight off the smaller males to protect the females.

However, the smaller males have a trick: they fold their tentacles, and change colours and patterns to match that of females. This allows them to sneak past the giant male, and mate with females.

That cuttlefish was not thinking that he's inadequate, he was thinking that he's got this. Point is, where there's a will, there's a way.

In your case, you're projecting your lack of self-worth onto the girls. You think that because you don't feel good, she doesn't feel good, which becomes self-fulfilling.

Our ultimate goal as animals is to procreate, and, in this act, the purpose of the penis is to shoot cum into the vagina. In this regard, you are a more than adequate cum-shooting machine. You are worthy.

Sure, look at other guys, but take action. See in what ways you can learn from them to become better. You have that ability. Compete, and challenge yourself to see how far you can get. Hopefully, you'll be the one they're sizing up in the future.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-07-28T10:47:38+00:00

All your negative aspects of yourself that you just listed are only a problem if you have a problem with them.

It's hard to wrap your head around.

Your external expression of your own internal self image is what's unattractive, not the features and traits.

Its not your little dick or your height, it's how you feel about it.

Find a way to roll with it and make it a cool interesting part of you. Thrive inspite of your setbacks and people will be drawn to you.

This entire battle is done in your own mind so you might as well do it on an exercise bike and work on your sixpack. A small dick isn't so bad if your rocking a million dollar dick root.

youcantdenythat · 2019-07-28T11:47:02+00:00

A: Make up for it in other areas.

Also, I didn't see anything about lifting in there. Get strong.

Keep in mind some guys will always be better than you. Try to look for guys that you are better than if you are so trapped in ego.

Title	How do I stop feeling inadequate?
Author	itsonly_beginning
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	July 28, 2019 8:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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