I've been lurking for awhile, finally had a question. I've learned to maintain frame when dealing with stupid women, and how to handle it (men too, but I find that men don't usually try to get under my skin like a woman would). I know how to handle when a woman is being a cunt. Don't show frustration, treat them like a child, dismiss or agree and amplify, etc. I can almost always shut a woman down or at least get out of the situation.

What happens though afterward? I feel like ideally, I shouldn't think of the situation ever again, it's a huge waste of my time and they win, but I do think about it. How do I get over it? How do I not only not show frustration, but how do I actually not be frustrated? Sometimes when women are being illogical and crazy or bitchy, it IS frustrating. Obviously I don't show it, and I try to use thought stopping techniques/meditation to clear my mind, but I feel like even spending THAT much energy is too much.

I feel like a response is "would you get frustrated if a child was being cranky", and to be honest, yes. I hate bratty kids, they annoy the hell out of me. After dealing with bratty kids, it's the same thing. Even if I diffuse the situation, I can't help but think about how shitty the kid was being. I know it's just a kid being a kid, a woman being a woman, but it still bothers me.

How do I deal with a bitch so that afterward I never think of it again?