How do I withdraw attention?

One of the most important things we learn on TRP is to know when to pull your attention from a woman, specially when the woman disrespects you. There is a post on TRP right now about a guy getting disrespected by his LTR and how he scolded her on it, trying to assert dominance, etc, etc. Looking at the comments, I noticed that the ones on top were saying that he played it badly, because by drawing attention to it and pointing out that it hurt him, he lost frame.

My question is: In a LTR (or similar situation), how do I withdraw attention without looking like a butthurt little bitch?Cause I don't want to look like a child or a woman (basically the same thing) by giving her the silent treatment, or by giving short dry answers to questions or statements that she might say. I want to know where to draw the line so that I can withdraw attention without showing her that she hurt me or that I was affected by her action.