I had a date with a girl and at the moment of paying I ask to split but she said that she found it silly and proceed to pay, so of course next time I paid.

But I had it happen again with another girl that I was trying to change from plate to LTR and the thing is you start a bit losing track of it and I find it "hard" to decide who has to pay and I hardly see myself asking to the girl to pay if she doesn't act like she's going to but it should be her "turn".

I mean I don't mind paying as usually I make much more than them but it damages my frame.

How do you guys deal with paying if she doesn't want to do the spliting?