Imagine this situation: You're with a girl that you're interested in. You've established some rapport but you're still in the push/pull/seduction phase. A female third party comes along and asks you directly: "Would you date/fuck this girl if she wanted to?".

It seems to me you're fucked either way when asked this:

  • If you say yes, you come off as needy/thirsty and the girl immediately labels you as the one that's doing the chasing, you instantly loose all mysteriousness;
  • If you say no, she will probably feel rejected and honestly you're being disingenuous, because obviously you do want to fuck her;
  • If you refuse to answer... I think its probably the best case scenario here but I can't help but think there's a lost chance to turn things in your favour. You are also labelled as a "pussy", too afraid to speak his mind.

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Your thoughts on this?