It's been a long time, but hello all.

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I recently got out of an LTR which lasted around three years all in. Never felt better, finally got myself back to usual after being pushed to rock bottom and having my manliness suppressed by a psycho bitch. I was straight back into the game a week after it ended, feeling confident and good.

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My confidence has definitely taken a hit, ex was easily a HB8.5 and was seriously beautiful however the personality was a different story, which by the way, ruined her beauty in my opinion. At the start of the relationship I guess I was high value, I had girls hitting me up and trying to talk to me, whether it be on social media or in person. When I first got with my ex, she damn sure went crazy at every bitch that tried it with me and scared them away, which I told her was not the right thing to do and she should trust me. She slowly (without me even noticing, idiot) took away my routine and self worth, complaining about the time I spent in the gym, with friends, with family, everything. I was an idiot and finally decided to throw her after she started getting worse and worse.

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A week or so later, I'm doing okay. Girls are trying to hit me up again, some people are asking what happened, some old 'female associates' told me I was stupid for allowing her to be so controlling and I got a few nudes and it's whatever, standard.

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So, here we go. My best friends girlfriend decides to have a gathering for the Fury v Wilder fight as her parents had gone away on a weekend trip, basically it was one huge excuse to drink a lot and eat a lot, so fuck it, I went. Arrived and it was a bit dead, slowly got better and enjoyed chatting with the people there as I hardly knew, or barely knew some of them so was interesting just to have a chat. A few of the girls there are slightly younger, 18-19, they're all good looking and definitely kept checking me out. Obviously due to my best friends girlfriend being there, I was able to get all of the gossip throughout the night. One girl said I was hot and started trying to talk to me to annoy her boyfriend (standard) which then causes a bit of beef, already looking good in my eyes as I kept my cool and just got on with it, no questions asked.

One girl sparks my attention, strangely enough it's the sister of my best friends girlfriend. She keeps trying to talk to me throughout the night, which I found strange. She's currently 'seeing' somebody who she has been on/off with since the end of September. NOW, here's the fucked up part. I know him, he's a complete fucking idiot. I've watched him throw a bottle at a car because someone fucked his ex girl, who I think he's still fucking but it's whatever, fair enough, gotta do what you gotta do. But, the kid arrived late, first thing he did was go to the toilet with his brother and his friends to snort a few lines of coke (what the fuck is wrong with kids nowadays? he's 18 and jobless?) so for me that's already screaming disaster.

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Now, as you can imagine, the host did not like her toilet being used as a crack den. Me and my friend kindly asked them to stop hoovering up coke in the toilet and take it outside or elsewhere, and explained that we're smoking weed but we still have the decency to roll up and take it around the back of the house in the playing fields. He didn't like being told what to do, got a bit funny about it but I handled the situation well and told him if he had any problems with what was said he could come to me, host or her boyfriend to explain them.

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The next day, her sister comes joins me, my best friend and his girlfriend in bed as we just sat there hanging like hell talking absolute crap. She jumped in the bed and came lay next to me, started showing interest. I dropped her a text on the night and we started talking. Said she wanted to go ice skating, so I took her with my best friend and his girl and she had a good time.

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aaaand, this is where we fuck up brothers...

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Now, I know she had a good time. I know she liked me. She kept coming by me to hold her hand and push her around, kept trying to talk to me and walking by me checking if I was okay etc. All looking good, we drive back home and she's having a great time laughing in the back of my car whilst we were messing around in race mode on the dual carriageways back from the rink, all went well.

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She gets home, her sister asks what she thought of me (which I'm not meant to know) and she tells her sister she really likes me and she thinks I'm hot, but she's been seeing this guy on/off now for months and she feels bad and isn't sure what to do. He was meant to meet her on Saturday but he got coked up and punched a car and ended up in A&E, I'm sure you can see the pattern occurring here.

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I text her asking if she's ended things yet after what happened with the car, she starts telling me how she's not sure what to do, it's not serious etc.

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I know for a fact I'm better than him. I just don't really know how to handle a situation like this as I've never really had it before, advice?

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Thank you very much in advance.