Greetings,

I have had several accounts over the years and have used trp advice in the past. I recently just got out of a really nasty relationship - so it goes..

There is a girl whose been a close friend for a long long time. In the past there was a time we both liked eachother but were in relationships. She started to dead me and i eventually just was honest with her and said what i needed to say. She told me she doesnt like me in that way, and didnt want to hurt my feelings. She didnt want to lose the friendship so we talked and i told her my true feelings. She seemed geniunely appreciative that i was open about how i love her and all that bp bs.

I think i fucked up by opening up and being honest. Is there any way to get her to see me in a sexual/romantic way again or did confessing my love to her at 2am ruin my chances. If I had to be completely honest this girl is wifey material but we are young 21/22. I messaged her once and she didnt answer so my guess is i have no chance. I would like some guidance though if anyone can offer advice.

Just to note: i am already working out, seeing others girls, focusing on my career and hanging out with friends..