This is a throwaway, I've been following TRP for a few years. I lift (bench 235 for reps, squatted 315 the other day). I practice abundance and spin plates, mostly from tinder/okcupid. I don't put up with shenanigans. I think I'm good looking.

My results are not where I want them to be. My plates are like, 6s and 7s and they don't worship me. I think I can do better, because every now and then one comes along and gives me the legit alpha treatment and I want more of that. I think what's holding me back really is my ability to deliver the fun. I'm not douchey or spergy but I'm kinda boring and straightforward. Is there anything I can do to get better at making things fun for the people around me?