^ is a hypothetical question related to a much complicated question/issue.

Some of you are comfortable with fucking a woman who is married or in a relationship with someone. You don't feel bad about it.

Let me give some examples.

Say, you sell guns local gangs in Africa. Gangs use the guns to wipe out villages because they want to sell the village land to corps. Guns you are selling will be used to kill children. You think "If I'm not selling those guns, someone else will. It doesn't matter who sells them because those children are already dead. So I might as well sell guns because $$ is nice. I'll donate some of the money. I let 1000 kids die by selling guns. If I spend 20% of the profit I'm making from selling guns, I can adapt 2000 orhpans and save 2000 lives". Do you see the point?

Pablo Escobar, Al Capone, many others justified their actions similarly and slept like babies from what I've heard.

It is all about personal subjective perspective. There is no answer on right or wrong. The answer is what make. We all have personal realities. Marriage, laws, morals, society, maybe religions are man made.

These are my thoughts but I feel bad when I'm hurting people. I never hurt anyone really. I've always chose the option which didn't hurt people. It bothers me to see posts like this because I sympathize with the victim, the beta bucks. He is a human. I sympathize with weak people who got hurt everywhere. I sympathize with cute animals who get hurt.

To be anything in the world, seems like I have to get more ruthless. To be more ruthless, seems like I have to get used to hurting people. Eventually I would feel less bad, accept my "justification", and just do it. Get coworkers fired so I can stay in the job or get more $? Done. Fuck married women? Why not. Cheat, lie, steal? Why not. Sell guns or do something similar where my actions enable others to hurt people? Why not. All depends on cost and benefit analysis. As long as I can get away with it, benefit outweighs the costs, I do it. I'm thinking out loud here.

I'm looking for people who used to be nice like me and became more ruthless. Are you happy with your change? Do you wish you could be more nice/naive/idealistic like you used to? Any other thoughts you want to add?