We met through college. We were definitely only friends. She had also a bf at that time.

Anyways, last night we went out. She invited me. We went to a nearby park and she brought me there to one bench near her flat. We connected again really well but we also spoke about sex and past and present sexual experiences. I didn't escalate because I wasn't sure she wanted it ( I thought maybe she still only wants friendship because she has a lot of male friends)

So, what do you think, those facts above, do they mean that maybe she wanted me to escalate? Also, I didn't do it because I didn't know how to escalate on that bench. How can I escalate in that situation? Also we will go to the same college so I was scared if she considers me maybe a creep if I try something / escalate because we still have 5 years together in class.

We are going out in 2 days again so do I escalate despite the risks and if yes how?