Lately I've been focusing on sucking at things first. If I focus on succeeding, I don't attempt to get it. I set goals like fail at something X times every Y days. It seem to be working.

I live in a place where it is hard to make friends because it is hard to talk to people because it is hard to find people. I live in software and immigrant dense suburban city. Hobbies, sports, interests? There is no meetup for the things I'm interested in. I looked EVERYWHERE. Majority of the things are weird (i.e. 50 singles, random god's teachings) or things I'm horrible at (i.e. salsa, sports because I'm fat), software oriented, Indian culture oriented.

People seem to live here very individually I think? Anway, I gotta do something tangible to at least feel okay. Right now it is bothering me that I'm not doing somethings that will get me to where I want to be. I gotta fail at some things REGULARLY relevant to making friends.

How to fail at making friends? What can I do?