How to handle shit test.

hurklemcturklederk · 2018-04-28T23:54:24+00:00

"I know" "Thanks" "My therapist says the same thing" Just don't react

oneredguy · 2018-04-28T23:58:05+00:00

"wait"

Send text

"You're normal?"

lowjakx · 2018-04-29T00:26:23+00:00

I just ignored it.

SirKolbath · 2018-04-29T00:48:22+00:00

This is the sort of shit test I usually don't bother replying to because it's easy to fuck up and turn her off. Kimchee posted some replies, and while I wouldn't use them (They don't fit my frame.) they might work for you.

Mostly I pick one of two replies:

"Yes, and you obviously love it because you're still here." Then I immediately ask them a question that takes a moment of thought, "Who's your favorite Avenger and why?" (I probably wouldn't ask that, actually.) The point is to get her off balance slightly. You just told her that you know she is attracted to your weird, and then to derail her thinking just enough that she doesn't decide to pull some snarky stunt like saying, "Oh yeah? So how about this?" and walking off.

Or 2) I simply ignore the statement and pretend I didn't even hear it by Going right to the previous question without the "And you love it" part.

Title	How to handle shit test.
Author	lowjakx
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	April 28, 2018 11:46 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8fnp7k/how_to_handle_shit_test/
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