Last saturday i had set up a meeting with an OLTR of mine as in i would join her in her house , before in sexy banter i told her to put on a thong and leggings and cook us some food before i arrived . later on as i get to her home , i find that she made no food and whilst wearing a thong and leggings i noticed a weird vibe about her , her body language was closed and she was throwing passive aggressive remarks here and there , at one point i made a move on her and slipped a hand in her thong and she got all defensive throwing the i'm not comfortable excuse . i brushed it off and moved on , later on she starts demanding i get out of the house , and gets us some bottles of coke , i refused obviously , after denying her attempts at bossing me around she went to her room and changed into a shirt and pyjama's ,an obvious passive aggressive move , i make a remark asking if everything is alright which she answered with the i'm not comfortable with you excuse , seeing she isnt interested in being even remotely sexual i told her i must go as as ive got stuff to do , she then got agressive and started throwing drama at me . I said i dont do drama and i walked out of the door . i decided i'm going to soft next her for 4 days after she starting sending texts 10 or 15 mins after i left her house ranging from insults to how i'm selfish and that i want things to always be my way or i walk out , i ignored the texts , later on i found she bloqued me on social media and whatsapp which is where we mostly text .

  • the question is , should i still reach out to her over phonecall as if nothing happened after 6 days as i decided to extend the soft next after her bloquing spree or should i wait until she unblocks , reaches out and soft next her for 3 days then reach out ? To those who will ask , yes we've had sex in the past and the rate of sex is 2-3 times a week before she starts trying to push my boundaries which is around one week ago