I've only been with one girl ever and it was an LTR, she took the lead on most sexual things and I went with the flow. It's now been ~6 months since I had sex and I realized if I want to spin plates I should know what I'm doing in bed. I used to watch porn for ideas but I quit that habit a while ago, what's a good way to escalate, especially in a party scenario? Step-by-step or general advice is appreciated.