Hi

I read SGM and I really liked it especially the DEVI categories. I was married for 5 years (now divorced) and I never dominated or dirty talked to my wife so D and E I wanted to improve first. I have some plates on which I am trying this stuff and I love it. First time I dirty talked in sex and dominated I prepared at home what I am going to say and do but right now it just flows.

My next weakness I would like to improve is Immersion. Signs of this (maybe it is combined with other cons I am not perfect otherwise) weakness IMO are:

  • low desire for sex with girl whom I do not know
  • sometimes I am more aroused when I am alone (random erections via imagination) than when girl in front of me is present
  • sometimes I lose erection when no physical stimuli is done on my dick
  • still wondering in sex if she is happy with what I do
  • usually my head is in the moment but I feel like I could do much better

Wondering if you guys can give me some recommendations or just your insights about that Immersion topic. Cheers