Helloo guys.

I have a small problem that I hope you guys can help with. I'm a 18yo guy and my social life isn't great. I don't get invited to many parties and therefore I don't get out much. My communication and socializing skills is pretty depressing. I want to be better at that but the only way to get better at that is to get out right?

I struggle to meet new people because I don't know where to go to meet new people. Yea, sure, I could go to a bar or a club, but that isn't really the best places to meet new people and talk. What do I do? Where do I go?

How do I get my communication and social skills to the point where I know that, this type of body language means that and this is what I can and can't do. I want to know when and how to approach someone. I want to know when I can go in for the kiss etc.

Or is it all just going for it and trusting your gut? Is it trusting that it will be ok? Is it about believing in yourself? They say you should kiss on your first date. I never understood how guys do that. I want to be that dominant.

So to summarize, I need advice on the following: - How can I be a super dominant male that people look up to and girls love? I need to learn through experience, because when people tell me "do this or walk like this", I focus so much on that, that I lose my personality and stop being me. So any advice on how to learn to be dominant and all like I mentioned above through experience, will be greatly appreciated. - Where do I go to socialize? - How do I improve my social and communication skills? How do I know when to do what etc? Just do it?

I hope this is considered the correct type of advice because I really don't want to be banned xD. I really need the help. I want a better sex life and better relationships. I want to be the man that women need me to be.

I struggle to lead, control myself and situations and I struggle to stay calm and quiet when I feel bad. Is that dominance? How do I learn that through experience?

If I can do this, then I will be able to make my partners happier. I will be able to make sex more enjoyable, and I will be able to improve my relationships. I will be able to meet more people and have more control over what happens in my life etc.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.