So I have a girl that has caught feelings for me has said that she loves me already I have not returned the i love you, and do not intend to. Has also mentioned she doesnt know what we are, but has not really asked me I didn't acknowledge it. How would I let her down slowly so that I don't break her. Plus make it seem like it was more of her own doing than mine. I do a slow push pull push when this comes up.