Hello, I don't know if this has been posted about before, but it seems like it would be rather difficult to find about. Anyway, the gist is - I'm a guy just starting to try and meet girls while considering RP tenets at the same time with no prior experience, and the first problem I ran into is differentiating whether a girl is just trying to establish plausible deniability or just outright wants orbiters.

Here's an example - I've met a girl through the Internet recently, and we arranged a meetup. Now, she seemed to click with me, however at the same time she felt the need to clarify that she's only looking for a friend. However, from what I have read about on TRP, if she's saying that, it might actually be her just trying to exercise plausible deniability rather than looking for a new orbiter.

As such, I have to ask - what exactly does that mean? How likely would it be to turn things sexual? I'd like to imagine that even if I ultimately get blown off on the date itself, at least it will give me some practical experience on what to do and what I should not do.

Also, I live in Russia, if that matters.