Hi, I understand LMR as girl's feeling 'slutty' when putting out and esentially you have to help her overcome her fears so she can do what she wants.

Now one time I was in bed with a girl (virgin) she didn't initially want to be sexual beyond me touching her boobs etc, but then I said OK, got up out of bed and went to get myself a glass of water, when I came back I went over to my desk started flicking through a book and sipping my drink.

She came over to me and put her hands on my back, I picked her up and took her back to bed, tried escalating again, this time she didn't resist and didn't protest to oral, but did to penetration, so I just accepted it there.

Was that rapey in any way and is the above method (freeze out) a good way of overcoming LMR without being rapey?

thanks