How to react to meeting ex Plate?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-02-03T18:35:33+00:00

Treat her with the courtesy you would a complete stranger.

As for re-plating, do what you want to do, period, full stop, the end. If she's not down, then don't chase her, just proceed as normal with your life.

1Pink1Stink · 2019-02-03T18:50:21+00:00

Don't ever look her way. Don't let her catch you looking at her.

If it comes down to you and her walking towards each other, then you acknowledge her. But barely.

Just put a cheeky smile on and nod or say hey and continue on your way.

If she stops to talk, then keep it short. Be polite (meaning don't act bitter or like an asshole) and just pretend you could care less about what happened between you two.

And don't even think about asking her to hang out again. What's wrong with you? She ghosted your ass. Do you realize how much of a chump you're going to look like if you ask her out?

It seems to me that you lack options because otherwise you wouldn't entertain the idea of seeing her again. In this situation, your dignity is more important than a nut.

friendandadvisor · 2019-02-04T14:41:35+00:00

How should I react when I meet her? Just briefly greet her and then continue with doing whatever I was planning to do?

Don't even greet her, unless she greets you first. Don't try to make eye contact.

Should I try to replate her?

No, she dumped your ass. Don't embarass yourself further, and once the trash is on the curb, do not go rooting through it again.

Should I try to figure out why she went cold?

You should have figured that out long ago, and without her help. She wouldn't help you if she could, and she couldn't help you if she wanted.

Should I ignore her completly?

Treat her like the school janitor or librarian. Cordial, but, don't initiate. Wait for her to greet you, and don't stare at her from a distance.

Title	How to react to meeting ex Plate?
Author	enterim
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	February 3, 2019 6:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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