Ever since getting into TRP I have just had this drive to get the word out there

A lot of my friends and family are males who don't have the "go getter" attitude. And I empathize so deeply with them because I spent most of my life in a shitty existence. Sexually frustrated, unhappy, stressed, and not feeling in control. And it makes me so sad to see a few of my friends in that mode. They aren't bad people at all. Most of them are genuinely well-meaning people with good intentions

What I don't get is what to say? A few of my buddies ask me for advice a lot. I try and step into my own shoes and ask myself what would have been helpful for me in my beta peak years. What could someone have told me to have gotten me to listen?

Do I just give up and accept that some people have to arrive on their own to TRP? I mean fuck TRP. Its not just TRP that is important here. TRP has a lot of controversial ideas that only a handful of people can swallow. I am talking about development. TRP minus the anti-feminism

I mean my buddy is a short asian dude who doesn't workout at all and always asks me for advice. He says "what EXACTLY do I say to this girl?". And I get so sad. He missed the point entirely. The point is not to figure out what to say. Thats not the issue. Its who you are, and how you say it. And to get started. Take action. Lift. Have that go getter attitude

But he doesn't get it. Its like talking to a wall. If I suggest any advice that actually involves taking serious action he will simply say "fuck it I will just do nothing and hope that a girl falls on me this weekend"

Brian TRacy says to just remind people "you are in control" and say nothing else. Is this a good one?

What is one phrase that I can respond when people ask me for fitness, meditation, motivational, self-help?

EDIT: Should I just wipe my brain of any and all care for others? I mean sometimes I just sit and stare at a wall depressed hoping this asian friend of mine doesn't die a virgin. He is 23 and never kissed a girl