Went on a date with a girl recently, first time meeting her, had fun, first night lay, she wanted to do it again so i said id be in touch soon. This girl moves across the country soon so there was no expectation of anything serious from either of us.

Ive been seeing another girl for a bit and it turns out they know each other. They found about each other without my knowledge and werent happy. Was planning on dropping the girl i had been seeing first and decided this would be a good opportunity to do so. When i reached out to this new girl she basically said she wasn’t interested in getting involved in any drama in her last month in the area.

Annoyed at possibly breaking two plates at once i called to explain myself but got no answer, sent a message afterwards explaining there wasnt any drama to be involved in, that i had a good time with her and its be cool to see her again, but if not good luck in the new state. Came off as a clingy message since she hadnt answered the call. DEER’d instead of DARE’d. What else could have been done better, if anything?