I recently posted an interesting article and an Instagram post about hypergamy and got a lot of interestingresponse.. I was wondering do you guys think?

Thinking and talking about hypergamy all the time only creates limiting beliefs about yourself. The more you focus on why someone would leave you, the more your brain will find evidence for that to be true. It's a self-fulling prophecy.⁣⁣ ⁣ When you are continually feeling and thinking that women will leave you for someone ‘better’ then you, you are constantly reminding yourself that you aren’t good enough. That’s a loser and a victim’s mentality. This mentality creates immense limiting and counterproductive internal beliefs about yourself. These beliefs will never truly allow you to see yourself as good enough, thus finding someone to share your life with will be almost impossible. ⁣You will start to expect that bad thing will happen to you. And guess what, what you focus on, expands! ⁣ The truth is, people will come and go all through your life. Including women. Stop attaching your value to how your partner or anyone for that matter, feels about you. Be the best version of yourself, for yourself. As a man, you don’t need anybody to feel fulfilled and happy. ⁣ So if someone isn’t able to value you as you value yourself, they should be free to leave. ⁣ ⁣ Free yourself from these limiting beliefs. Stop talking and thinking about hypergamy. Focus on yourself, think positively, and learn to develop positive beliefs about yourself. This way you will be more open to more positive and better-suited partners. ⁣ ⁣