I can't articulate myself when disrespected

Nnobul · 2018-07-14T15:23:31+00:00

You sound like a disgusting degenerate yourself. Fix your attitude.

curtainrodman · 2018-07-14T15:30:40+00:00

You sound annoying as fuck. There's a reason no one respects you. Actually, there are probably a lot of reasons no one respects you.

Luckily, these things can be fixed with a little bit of work. I'll offer some notes:

My feminist moral relativistic dumbfuck sister made a mess in the kitchen, a slight one so i said "Did you make that mess? clean it."

You seem to think that you have authority over your sister. You do not. When you try to act like you do, the natural response is for her to disrespect you for trying to assert authority that you do not have.

Her response was "I just fucking woke upppppp" Disgusting, I don't think she should be swearing at her age, getting tattoos and all that bullshit but she is.

Again, you think you have authority that you do not. You do not have the authority to decide if she should be swearing, getting tattoos, being a slut, being a feminist, having moral relativism, etc.

So i just told her "You're a disgusting degenerate and will not grow up to accomplish anything".

This is the ramblings and ranting of a weak male who pitched a little fit because he didn't get his way when he tried to boss someone around for no reason.

She said it means nothing, pissing me off even more - that's the whole point, nothing means anything to these nihilistic faggots.

More reactive ranting and raving.

I never heard her swear, I found it extremely disrespectful, but I was surprised at my rage. I couldn't intelligently articulate my self and I wanted to beat the shit out of her.

This is a beta nerd rage over the fact that you just ran face-first into the reality of the situation. In your head, you think that you have the right to act the way that you're acting. In reality, you found out that you do not. Then you went into a reactive narcissistic rage (and I mean narcissistic rage literally; that's the specific term for what happened here).

I know this sounds really fucking stupid, but why does that shit make me so aggressive? I think i wasn't offended at first, but I told her to clean it twice and instantly got a really emotional reaction from her which pissed me the fuck off.

So you told her to clean it up, she told you to fuck off and you told her to clean it up again. Where do you get off thinking that you have the right to do that in the first place?

Here's the main issue: It sends you into a narcissistic rage because your fantasy world in your head does not match up with what's going on in the real world outside of you. Whenever those two things clash, as they did with you stupidly trying to boss around your sister with no authority whatsoever, you hamster to yourself that it's because you're not respected when the real problem is that you act like a fucking autistic retard.

The solution is to focus on yourself and to stop trying to police and judge the actions of others. If you do that consistently, then you'll eventually gain enough value that people want to follow your lead naturally.

Nnobul · 2018-07-14T15:36:45+00:00

Maybe what you feel is wrong and without basis, idiot.

Cmdrj-nice · 2018-07-14T17:12:28+00:00

You allow your emotions to control you. You should control your emotions. Also you have a lot of built up anger/rage if you allow something so minuscule to offend you

CalvinRichland · 2018-07-14T19:50:44+00:00

When a man commands his own resources he need not share a home with a troll. Imrpove yourself. I am guessing you live at home like a little bitch so let the anger motivate you into a job that pays enough to have your own place.

Title	I can't articulate myself when disrespected
Author	Tzar212
Upvotes	0
Comments	37
Date	July 14, 2018 3:20 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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