Hey guys. So for as long as I have been sexually active, I have never been able to cum in the presence of a woman. Currently, I am 20 years old, and been with 6 women, so not being able to reach orgasm is a big issue for me.

I used to be a big porn addict, but have been cold turkey for 1 year. I have stopped my use of the death grip for just as long too. I've been working out for 1.5 years very frequently and bulked up. I have been meditating frequently too. I did all this to better my life, but to also beat my issue of not being able to orgasm.

This issue has stopped me from approaching women or escalating in women that I know are open to the next level, just due to the fact that I know I won't finish. I can't keep the girls around that I do escalate on because it's obvious that me not being able to finish also has an effect on them.

I feel like this is a psychological or physiological issue, more than physical. I was just wondering what steps I should take to overcome this issue (therapy? keep trying with new girls? take a testosterone test?).