Hi you said if I wanted advice I should pm you. If you don't have time to answer it's fine I will also post it on subreddit.

I'm kind of on crossroad in life.

I want to be a doctor while I also love player lifestyle, getting a lot of young girls,going on constant adventures and living life like that.

Problem is for player lifestyle you need to get money especially to sustaine such life when you are not in your 20s. But realisticly you can't get a lot of young girls in 40s and go on adventures if you dont having milions.Players are big buiessnes owners or have rich partners. I don't have rich parents which means I would have to work hard to get money which would be fine if I didn't hate the path to get there. I hate having to play some financial games all the time and I hate forcing myself constantly to make connections with people which is ofc key part of being sucessful buissinesman.

But I love medicine and being a surgeon also in this scenario I would be closer with my family and I wouldn't have to leave home place to live player lifestyle. But the problem is it also consumes your life. You can't be a neurosurgeon and player at the same time obviously. You have to be exepctional student and study in your 30s and work 80 sometimes even 100 hours week. Which would be fine because I love surgery if I didn't also love life full of adventures.

And idk what to do.

On one side I have lifestyle I would love but I would have to go through a lot of things I hate to get there. And worst of all I might never get there at all many fail and never make it.

On other hand. I really love medicine and neurosurgey but I would have to scarifce lifestyle I would like for it.

And I don't know which path to choose. In both ceases there a lot of downsides and upsides. Just idk which path would be right to take and not regret life I have chosen.