I've recently swallowed the pill. In the last few weeks I started seeing this new girl. She's really good in bed, and she lets me do whatever I want. She really wants to please me. This is a great feeling because I'm not used to it. She's even talking about having a three-way with her hot friend. I'm gonna try and make that happen soon. I should mention this girl is absolutely crazy about me. I give her mad tingles.

Anyway, so here's the problem: She's got some baggage, and some red flags. She's a single mother of a one year old baby, but I don't ever fuck with her if the kid is around. I made it very clear that I want nothing to do with this kid.

My biggest problem is this: she talks about her Ex-boyfriend a lot. She always talks about how much she hates him and how much of a piece of shit he is. This is disgusting behavior to me because she obviously thinks about him a lot. It makes me sick to realize that she still gets tingles from him, but it's pretty clear she still wants him if she talks about him this much.

I casually tell her "I don't give a fuck about (ex-boyfriend)" whenever she starts talking too much. I keep the tone casual, confident, and somewhat stern. I want to let her know that I'm not jealous, but I'm getting fed up with the bullshit. I've seen this guy's picture, and I'm better looking than him, but he's a real bad boy. With that said, I could definitely beat his ass, but I'm pissed off because I don't give the same tingles as he does, since she talks about him at least twice a night.

Still, this girl is just a plate. I'll be moving on shortly. This is all about practice and learning. So, what is the best way to handle this type of situation? Should I continue to casually brush it off? I've been going to the gym recently. I want girls to talk about me when I'm not around. I want to be the danger. I want to be treated like a man. I want to take control of my life and have women lust for me.

Anyway, what's your take on the situation? This girl brought a lot out of me. Fucking this girl has helped me find my inner animal. And my hunger is growing. I want to learn from this situation and apply it to my life. How do you shut down the Ex-boyfriend talk without seeming jealous? Even though she hates him and he's a piece of shit, I see through her bullshit. He's on her mind. A woman's hate is just like her love, after all. Am I right? I'm seriously confused and I need guidance.