I'm going to explain in detail my situation so you can better understand it and help me out, but if you don't have the time, or just you do not care of the context there is a Tl;dr at the bottom of the post.

A Year ago when I was 19 (still vergin)I moved in a new city to attend college and I met a girl that lived in my same dormitory, let's call her Rachel. I started dating her, I apllied what I learned on "the red pill" and fucked her. So far so good, but then I discovered that she had a boyfriend and instead of telling her "him or me", I just let Rachel doing whatever she wanted, basically falling in a beta behavior. Luckily I caught myself and just ended this relation with her, then I started dating other girls, but I still continued to be friend with Rachel. I justified this behavior telling myself that I didn't want to cause trouble since i had to see her everyday in my dorm, but I think that in reality part of me still hoped that I could still have a chance with this girl. This was not a problem last year because, like I said, I still dated other girls and I just treated her like a buddy, but during september I needed to move back to my home town to stay near my family, I will not give details but it was not an happy situation. Here is the part where I started fucking up very hard! First of all in my home town nobody is near my age, only old people, kids and farm animals, so I didn't met anybody to talk with, even my older friends where away. But most importantly i started to send text messages to Rachel very often, and while I needed someone to talk with, expecially a girl to give me validation, I just made myself another orbiter that SHE used for validation destroying my SMV. Time passed and I recognised what I did so I stopped being the one starting conversation with her but I still replyed to the messages, until two weaks ago when I could move again in the new city to attend university when I went full silence with Rachel. However yesterday she sent me a message that said " If I died I want you to know that I loved you", I know that it was a bait but I replyed the same and I said " I Don't have neither the time or the will to talk with you through phone, if you want to talk with me, now you can see me in person" and she followed saying" I just wanted you to say hi and ask you when you could come see me". After that i just added "Right now I don't know, I'm very busy!".

So here comes the question, what should I really do? I'm not using my brain but my dick to think and I would love to hear someone else opinion.

Right now I think I can do one of this three things

1)I can ignore her in attempt to have a chance to fuck her again

2)I can ignore her because she is an attention whore and it is best for me to meet new people and forget about her

3)I can meet her once in a while because it does not feal right to cut the friendship but knowing that she is just another buddy and nothing more

What do you suggest me?

tl;dr

I becomed a girl orbiter after I fucked her and now that I just ignored her she is doing what she can to gain my attention. How do I procede from here?