Ive been meeting women, flirting with various degrees of success, getting numbers, then texting and getting a few replies and then nothing at all. Today I deleted 8 numbers of women I had short conversations with, and then at a certain point they stopped responding. Some I wanted to date, some I just wanted as friends. Some stopped when I tried to set up a date.

I got this total drunkard friend who is always around women and has a bunch of women friends he can call when he wants. He's a total extrovert, who can just talk a bunch of nonsense for hours, I mean literally 0 identifiable points or facts. I asked him how he holds onto to women in his life and he said "empathy" and then stated 20 minutes of complete gibberish. I know being considerate and empathic to women has gotten me 0 results and feels like/is often identified as simpage.

Can I get some help without undefined jargon like "frame". Ive read the sidebar stuff and implemented some of it, but I haven't seen it helping me. Also stuff like "stand out from the crowd" "but dont try too hard" just seems to conflict. I am just so agitated with how things are in my dating life tonight. A few dates over six months. In previous posts, Ive been told to get more direct about my sexual intentions but it seems things are over before it even gets to the first date.