I get ghosted alot, is this normal?

TL;DR Advice on getting out of the ghost zone?

I assume because I am older now and girls before the wall are less interested sexually but there was a girl I really liked who could actually make me laugh and actually asked my name and wanted to go to coffee (she asked me!) and she just wasn't what I typically saw from women as of late. But she just stopped talking to me, I don't facebook or anything so I honestly have no clue what it may really be

But Looking back... I realize more then half the girls i talk to ghost me and not one of them said sorry, not interested or anything of the likes even though it was civil between us... it is strange to me, I don't think it is anything I do, it is not like I'm trying to hump there leg or something stupid, maybe they just don't have much to say to me?

fyi my smv is fine just wish I had more options. I avoid marriage like the plague and I don't let my stance on it be known and I don't have any kids, I avoid any family discussion or just kind brush it off if I have a gut feeling I should lie through teeth if I want some ass.

I practice my right to be left the fuck alone when I want. Just kind of tired of floozies I suppose and maybe a change wouldn't be so bad as long as it is casual, but I don't want such limited choices. Any advice on preventing this asd?

[–]IdolStud0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]xahzee[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]IdolStud0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So you've already had activities with her? You should've been able to determine her reaction to your game. Sounds like you have been giving her a bit too much of a nice guy/friendly vibe, rather than a man-to-woman vibe. If she went on a dirt bike date with you, she's given you a chance, but if you're in "ghost zone", the least thing that will work is being needy, contacting her, because that will lower your value in her eyes. Pursue other things in the meantime, pursue other options, convince yourself that you have options and walk with a straight back with your crotch leading the way. Be confident, not needy. If she's ghosted you, make her regret it. Act and feel like women should chase you, and not the other way around.
I'm not sure where you're from, it would help if there was some cultural context or if this woman is part of your social circle or workplace, to determine how to contact her, if you really have to.

[–]xahzee[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]IdolStud0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's the right move. If she ghosts, you ghost harder. Women are like cats, you don't chase them - you let them come to you. If you chase, you will scare them away easily, if you sit still they will stroke their back against your leg.
Focus on becoming awesome, charming, abundant, well-read, in good health, working out, and developing your masculine virtues. In other words, develop your state of being and women will easily be lured in.
Don't be overly concerned with specifics, or what you should do, because you will tend to overthink and your inner state will ultimately shine through. Tactics and canned lines will only take you so far. What really matters is your inner frame/reality, because it will shine through.
If you maximize these factors, women will attract to you like bees to honey. My advice to you will be this. To destroy neediness, and not chase women (but instead luring them in) you must follow this rule from The Book Of Pook: Either go for many or go for none. If you go for ONE you will become an AFC. Most guys are too LAZY or too SCARED to go for multiple girls. So they remain AFCs (average frustrated chumps) and forever remain in the vicious cycle.

Title	I get ghosted alot, is this normal?
Author	xahzee
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	October 14, 2017 1:11 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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