Hello boys, I'm 28 year old male.

What can I say about me, 3 years ago I was in serious relationship which ended and afterwards I kind of went to find myself.

In those three years I managed to get a nice job, my own apartment, my car and quit drinking (I drank almost everyday, not much but it was everyday), I lost maybe 35-40 pounds and things are pretty much okay on the surface...

But deep down I'm unhappy. I feel like - what are my sacrifices for since I don't have anyone by my side. During those three years I had sex some times but it's FAR from a healthy sexual life.

The game really started changing around 2015-6 with all the social media hugely involved in our lives. Before that I got no problems getting girls, but now I do... and the worst part is, I'm looking for companionship but the game HAS changed.

A friend of mine the other day almost lost his GF because she wanted him to take bank credit for something she wanted... and she almost dumped him.

Girls these days guys... they have so much attention it's really really hard for me to keep up with the games.

I look at my bank account and I'm FAR above average in my country (like 3-4 times more) I have a car I like, apartment I like, clothes I like and deep down I'm hugely unsatisfied.

Girls come, sometimes they have interest, in some cases we have some sexual contact and then things change, they either get back to their boyfriend or they don't leave him at all, they just cheat on him with me.

I'm really confused what's going on, years ago I was the guy that was with every girl around, from a group of 4 friends I got with all four of them, I never EVER had problems with girls like now I do, and it's strange since I really took some steps to improve myself, and sometimes I wonder if there is a point in all that.

I don't want to sound like a cry baby AT ALL, but this is what I feel and I really thought you might give me some advice. Just being alone does not feel good anymore but women sense it as needy probably (not that I ever talked to them about that).

Any advice would be HUGELY appreciated - I improved myself... still don't have girls (or the ones I have are not the quality I need), what's going on brothers?