In august I finally said fuck it. Enough LARPing and promised myself I'll try asking girls out. I had been lifting for a year and looked after my appearance so I had no reason to hold back.

Since then, I had been asking girls out about roughly about once a month. Every time I asked a girl out, I improved and never repeated the mistakes I made last time.

I went from (All with different girls) :

  • getting rejected upon asking out
  • to getting rejected during the first date
  • to getting a second date, making out on it
  • to making out on first, getting laid on the second

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Here's how it all happened.

September : Asked out this chick I had good chemistry with. She friendzoned me.

The good : Asked her out

The bad : Asked her out after a month of having a good chemistry. Too fucking late.

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October : Met this girl at a party, we kinda vibed and I threw in a complement too I think. She mentioned about a play she wanted to see and I casually said we'll go see it together. Didn't text her for a week but then I asked her out and we went for the play. During the date I was too straightforward and too needy. She left in the middle of it saying she wasn't interested lol.

The good : Asked her out in the very first conversation.

The bad : Broke frame consistently during the date.

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November : Met this girl in October but it was platonic. But I threw in a few subtle compliments on text to express my intent. She got the hint and we went for drinks. I maintained a very strong frame, with lots of push-pull and good quality kino, passed shit tests with flying colours. Asked her if she wanted to come over but she said no so I just made plans for the next date and said bye. During the second date the frame was again strong, kino as well. We made out but I wasn't smooth about getting her back to my place. I subsequently catch oneitis for this slut because this was my first kiss in 2 years and I then break frame over text during the next week. We know what happened next.

The good : Good game - frame control, shit test passing, push-pull, kino. Very proud about it.

The bad : Catching oneitis just after just a kiss and breaking frame OVER TEXT

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December : This was a lot like the last girl except that I kissed her on the first date itself. On the second date I kissed her about midway through the date and then pulled her over to my place. We fuck and she leaves in the morning. She asks me how many girls I had been with because this was the best sex she's ever had. I am laughing inside but on the outside I just smirk and tell her she's my first.

The good : (On top of Good game - frame control, shit test passing, push-pull, kino) Never texted her more than it was necessary. It wasn't "text only for logistics" either. Just 2-3 texts about whatever before setting up logistics. Reading Sex God Method during my LARPing days helped I guess.

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I feel much better about looking back at my progress in the last few months than I felt when I was losing my virginity. Self-improvement is so rewarding.

What's next? These were all 6-7s. I'm going to try approaching hotter range and I know I'm going to get better every time I try.

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tldr ; try, and be scientific about it. Maintain a field report diary. Note everything you did right. Note everything you did wrong. Read all your previous field reports before going for the next date. I promise you you'll get better if you are scientific about it.