I think I've become to passive with since the only relationships I've been in were initiated by the woman. My first girlfriends I had all took the reigns and horned in on me. As I'm off in college I'm seeing that it's not like that.

The other night I was at a hookah joint with two friends, it wasn't to crowded, and across the room there was a good looking Asian girl sitting on the couch with her friend. Everytime I looked over, her eyes were fixed on me and she started to smirk a bit as the night went on. We kept making eye contact and there wasn't a time I looked over where she wasn't staring at me. What do I do when this happens? I don't want to come off as some thirsty fucker, but something's telling me that she wanted me to come talk to her.

A few weeks back something similar happened, I went to a bar with a few people and my boys female friend came along. We were all sitting at the bar and she was two seats down from me, and once again, she's giving me the same looks. While everyone I was with were mid conversation, I'd lock eyes with her and she's resting her elbow on the bar, cheek in hand staring at me, with that same smirk.

Over the weekend I went out on a date with a chick from my university, we went and got coffee, and this date wasn't like one I've had before. I went over to one of the couches and sat down, instead of her sitting in the chair across from me she sat down next to me, and didn't give me much of my own space. I had a good time and she told me towards the end she thought I was cute.

Help me out, my game's awful.