I'm a twenty-four year old canadian male. To quickly sum up my current state of affairs; I am one of the lost boys. I was mostly raised by and still live with my pathological (oedipal) mother, and my father was mostly absent in a upper-middle class suburbia. I was badly spoiled and made terrible choices.

I have been intoxicated for the last decade and am now sorting myself the fuck out, but I'm way behind. I have no post-secondary education and little work experience. I am able to handle my health and physical fitness and I have made huge changes in my life psychologically and physically, despite living in a toxic environment.

I now am planning to move out because I cannot live with my mother anymore, it is killing me. I will have to start from the bottom. I am planning to get a job in the mall and a room walking distance from the mall, this will cut down a lot of work stress. I'm choosing work in the mall because there are so many girls there every day, so I can work on my social skills and get some. If I fuck up at work I have a lot more jobs to choose from. I want to transcend this in time, eventually getting an education or dive into entrepreneurship.

I am also riddling out how to start making money online, investing, stocks, ect...I might be a fool, but I strongly feel that if I figured out my money problems that all would be gravy.

I am looking for any alternative pathways that would prove useful and relevant resources.

What can I do to totally remove myself from my situation(living at home with my mother) quickly, so that I can go deep into monk mode?

Best regards.