im missing this kind of chilled funny vibe. either im extremely rational in my way of talking or im the most fucked up retard. there is no in between and mostly talking to me is extremely uncomfortable. I know how to be intelligent and have deep conversations where i give my opinion and so on, but i cant do these chilled pick ups or even a short conversation with other guys while being out. any tips to improve? maybe someone with initially similar problems?

i do OLD pretty successfully but would like to slowly start doing some pickup, because, as we all know, most of the OLD girls are kind of trash and annoying. I already try to do some conversation when the situation arises but yeah.. its mostly fucking awkward..