Should I just accept that I'm not gonna get laid, give up on women and concentrate on myself? I feel like my only options are 1) MGTOW or 2) force myself to embody the characteristics that women want.

I really don't want to do that because I feel like I'm changing myself to pander to women and their desires. By doing that, I'm still controlled by women. I'm still chasing them (albeit in a more successful way).

Can anyone else relate to what I'm saying? Are these the only options for a guy like me?