I just finished college and looking for work. No plates or girls atm but dated a girl a few weeks back.

I’ve been in a slump for several months now and it has happened before twice.

It’s like I have this all or nothing mentality, I either am obsessed or I couldn’t care at all and everything goes backwards.

Social life, dating life, work etc.

All I do is sit inside and procrastinate, I’d rather sit inside watch movies and youtube or play video games.

Any advice on how to get out of this? I should have moved out by now with a job and should have been spinning plates/dating.

It’s killing me see all my buddies travel all over the world and have the time of their lives whilst my life is shit atm.