I can't seem to distance myself from hunting after particular poon I consider high quality. Currently, I'm hunting my sisters bff (nailed her once 2 months ago half a day after she broke up with her LTR, still a secret from my sister. AWALT, amirite?)

Basically, I have no real trouble getting laid every couple of weeks or so with women I don't care about so thats not a problem. There just always seems to be a particular project I'm pursuing and overly strategizing about. Like really bad cases of short-lived oneitis that I can't shake. I've learned and know when its time to move on, though, so thats an improvement of my true BP days.

My tendency to obsess pisses me off. It clouds my judgment and diverts focus from important things like lifting and finding my mission.

I know I need to go full monk-mode to center myself and reach a true state of DGAF. Right now, I'm just a pretender. Committing to it is my problem.

How do you do it, my dudes? Any advice would be appreciated.