I'm getting turned off very easily.

loophole292 · 2019-09-08T23:16:24+00:00

Lower your standards bro - or learn to pick up models.

I'd rather surf the wave of 6-7's than search for that one 9.

FereallyRed · 2019-09-08T22:33:47+00:00

You're so porn addicted that real sex with sounds and smells and jiggles and women that aren't edited to maximize you jerking off turns you off.

Think about how fucked up that is.... you need curated perfect porn to keep it up.

Life doesn't work like that.

If you can't laugh at a big queef then you are doing it wrong.

Eatslikeshit · 2019-09-08T23:33:24+00:00

Maybe you're a rogue agent within the Matrix. Mr. smith?

rnsbrum · 2019-09-08T22:54:42+00:00

Then only fuck women that you are really into.

Or you could try Nofap and being mindful. Try to get in the sex mood and think about women that turn you on. Dont let your thoughts waver. Weed might help too. Some foreplay/kissing also helps, specially if she knows what she is doing and starts sucking you off. That shit will go right up

amphix339 · 2019-09-09T07:49:25+00:00

This is the gayest thing I've ever read

mrmr69 · 2019-09-09T00:42:27+00:00

Are you sensitive to smells in normal day-to-day life, too? I can't get a hardon when they smell like fried stuff, even if I would get one to their usual smell.

Bait-and-switch is a mayor turnoff. You don't want to feel like a sucker.

My advice is to a) become more sexual in general, and b) stop putting pussy on the pedestal.

On the first, put yourself in more sexual situations with body contact, more physical flirting, dancing, making out, play grab-ass, not necessarily going all the way. Only go further if you're in the mood. Have fun. Don't put pressure on yourself. Sure, there are girls that will put you into the LTR drawer, beta drawer, or ghost you when you don't pull the trigger. But this is about you. Don't put pressure on yourself. And don't go nofap. If you lift and look like it you know that keeping tissue well circulated with blood is the way to keep it healthy and fix issues. Do healthy masturbation in NMMNG Chapter 8. Get your posture right. Do this hip stretch routine https://youtube.com/watch?v=ntP8eQY74Cw . Stretch your chest. Roll out your hamstrings, adductors, abductors, abs, diaphragm with a lacrosse ball.

Concerning the second, how was the situation with your ex high school mate a bait-and-switch? You were friends hanging out and instead of playing checkers or connect-four, you'd have fun by having sex. It's no big deal. This will fix itself with more experience. About the smell and hygiene, that's an issue you have to tacle actively: lead her by making her clean up/shower (without being accusatory, or if you do do it playfully). You don't have to "close your eyes and think of England". Sure, if she takes it personally the night might be over. But don't ever apologize for anything. And it's only this night: it doesn't even mean that there won't be another time with her. Summarizing this point, you're having bad sexual experiences because you think that you don't have any options and you have to take what you can get. (Again NMMNG Chapter 8.)

Good luck. Let me know how it goes.

meikyo_shisui · 2019-09-09T14:51:21+00:00

Sounds like you just need to get with women who have better quality bodies and personal hygiene to me. I wouldn't stand for stale sweat or misshapen boobs either. I keep in shape, body and dick clean so expect exactly the same from women.

Title	I'm getting turned off very easily.
Author	pvpsquad
Upvotes	13
Comments	10
Date	September 8, 2019 10:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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