Since I have been increasing my smv and consuming rp knowledge (still not an expert and don't have sidebar memorized.) I have noticed changes obviously in the way women received me.

I've noticed how beta a lot of my friends truly are around women. Anyway the other day I went to go eat and there was a high smv blonde as our waitress. I am in an ltr with no urges to plate anything else right now and I also noticed that this woman had a ring on.

My buddy ordered some kind of beer and I said I'll take a water (no desire to pay a restaraunts premium prices for alcohol.) She asked me if I wanted something to drink and I said no I'm good I just had some tequila. She responded with can I come take shots with you?

It certainly seemed playful and not serious but regardless it caught me off guard. So I just smiled and dismissed her comment. I felt the fact she had a ring on implied that even if I was to want to pursue her, it would not be worth the effort I would have to exert to plate her.

Another situation with a different waitress was quite similar. I mentioned that I had tequila and she said that she wanted some and I said alright let's go take shots in my backseat (don't remember the exact context but something to that extent) and she said "I wish I could" and again I did not take it seriously so I just dismissed.

So my question is- I've identified that these girls are just engaging in playful banter BUT is it something like- inside of every "just kidding" is true intentions kind of thing?

Please speculate and let me know how much of a "fucking idiot" and "pussy" I am for wondering this.