I've been friends with large groups of guys several times in my life. I'm on the alpha side of things. After a couple years, when we get comfortable, we start fucking with each other. Women included because my boys now have girlfriends and wives.

When I enter someone else's social circle, I have to learn their rules and navigate them. Within every city there are thousands of tribes, if not millions. You might be part of half a dozen I'm your own life.

But the problem is that there's all these underlying power dynamics but nobody is explicit about them: we're all playing a game with the most vague rules. Only a dim intuition of our own biology is our guide. It's massively inefficient and leads to the worse outcomes.

Who is taking about this aspect of RedPill? I want to know it as much as the getting laid stuff. If we knew the rules, we could play the game.