I'll try to keep this short. I've been in about 3 long term relationships, and this is my third. I've noticed in all three I have a tendency to take a strong confident woman and over time make her feel insecure and have almost zero confidence. I'm not sure if this is red pill or my own insecurities coming out. The woman I'm with is very much red pill and as close to a unicorn as I believe I'll find. I have no intentions of leaving her and I feel I am the cause of her insecurities. Is this possible? Am I taking away her accountability? I feel I have not, I feel as if I have stopped being a leader and allowed this to happen. Any info you need just let me know.

Thanks for your time brothers.