So I am not really an introvert, I enjoy human company but I talk less and am very choosy of who I talk to. I only say as much is needed to be said. Even someone who’s noticed me for 5 minutes says I’m shy and quiet type of person. This is not just girls. I’ve read that alpha males are loud and centre of all the attention in the room. I am far from that type. Is this a bad thing? Should I aim to change this? If yes, then how?