Wall of text. Sorry.
So, first. I've been in a relationship for a long time (7 years). However, last few weeks.. It's dying. This will explain why I havent made a move yet. I'm 26, shes 20.
I'll keep this super TL:DR Skip alot of shit, but it all happens between may until now.
English is not my motherlanguage so I hope you can understand me and im on my phone.
Im not into sleeping around atm, more like reading this one chick (Shes not a special snow flake and im not in love with her, dont worry!)
So at my summer job, I met this younger girl that I had great chemestry with and it grew obvious that she started to get attracted to me with comments such as "I dont mind older guys" and when I asked her why she still is singel she replied with "I understand why youre in a relationship for so long, your funny, smart and everything"
Company party where I get blackout drunk, she started to "flirty face slap me" (Didnt fall for the shit test and I gave her one also, not slap her.. but more like put my face on her face). She started leaving comments such as "Im going on a date tomorrow, just so you know" which I also didnt fail.
Into the night, I get pritty shitfaced (Im in a relationship, Im not out to hit on girls. Im here to get smashed). But I THINK she was like:
She: I like you
Me: I like you too
She: No, I like like you.
Me: ?
SHe: I really like you.
Where I hugged her and then I dont remember jack shit.
This was also my last day before school started so we didnt see eachother for a while.
A private party for the core group happens about 3 weeks later. I go there and I'm sober due to exams.
At this party, when I arrive.. She screams and runs across the room to jump into me for a hug. I mean litteray jump. She seeks out hugs through out the night.
I asked her about her date, where she didnt remember what I was talking about (Obvious she faked it), but then was like "Oh, no.. I didnt like him he was a pussy", I encourage her to seek out someone tonight where she tells me she didnt want too but that I should feel her legs because she didnt shave? (dafaq) - She wants me to touch her all the time.
2-3 more weeks pass and my school slows down. I get back to the extra work and she is there still. Almost everyday she wants a hug. She starts leaving comments such as "Ketmen, you remember our last party? When we went out.. some creep was hitting on me all night" etc
Oh well, work is work.. But we have fun, and she seeks me out.
My relationship is starting to die and I become open to the idea of her (I havent been before, because.. Im in a relationship) and shes a coworker.
Another company party.
She is super against me this whole night. I mean like, whatever I say she disagree with. Even small stuff like "It's cold outside" and shit.. I think you know what I mean.
Still wants hugs tho, and her body language is always faced towards me. When me and all the other coworkers sit in a sofa, I have my legs on a "leg chair?" and I tap my feet, she puts her feet by mine and I keep tapping. Her foot gets tapped by mine and she tells me to cut it off, I tell her no and to move her foot. She dont, and we sit there for 20min (Not us 2 alone, more like 10 people). Hips towards me, legs towards me, body towards me.. yeah you get it.
Towards the end of the party, I drop a note that I'm not techically in a relationship anymore (her friend asks something about my relationship), but due to our duration.. its not like we can just cut it off due to it being mutual (Moving and shit takes time)..
That happend last week.
So this weekend, we work togeather and she has done a 360. Now she is hugging my friend, being super close to him and shit.
Anyhow, I hit her up on facebook and she is super hard to get talking, I get her to start tho and we talk for a hour or so.
Next day we talk about how we sat in a hottub / her bikini at the party but I couldnt see shit due to the fog / my glasses and tells me "Poor you ;) " and I reply "Dont worry! I got to see what I wanted, Y half naked! ;) " (Y is another male friend).
Where she gives me the facebook thumps up and thats it.
Next day at work, cold as fk towards me and hot as fk towards my male friend. (My male friend is confused also, because shes never hugged him before or anything)
I understand that I should of made a move early, but Ive been in a relationship so.
My question is; based on what ive written..
Is she into me or just enjoyed to tease?
Should I keep typing on facebook or what? Me and a few male co-workers are going on a movie soon and Im considering asking her and another girl with us. But asking her through facebook and see her respons (like if she thinks Im asking her out, but really not).
Also bonus question:
If a girl like seriously shit tests you on everything you say and do. Is that a sign of intrested or not?
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