I am trying to keep my frame but sometimes I feel this makes me having difficulties relate to another person emotionally. I feel like I am too stiff by trying to keep my frame. Is this normal? I don't really have fun when I am talking to other people but I feel like I need to do that to keep have social value.How do I have fun and truly enjoy a conversation? I am talking about talking to people in general not just women. Can someone please help me? Thanks!