I am in my early twenty's, got a girl pregnant, married her, divorced now cause she cheated and I was sick of her and her manipulative behavior, all this was before trp. We have 50/50 custody but lately she has been hinting at and accusing me of abusing our child, thinking she wants to get evidence to take him away. I am NOT abusive in any way and I try my best to be the greatest father. I think she does these things to grab my attention.(I try to cut all contact except regarding my child though I break sometimes and reply to her texts when she is accusing me of harm) Every time I see her and her bf my chest gets pounding and I have this crazy adrenaline rush and its hard to think and maintain frame. How do I build up my frame to where I can think clearly, not raise my voice, get angry, and just overall get rid of that pressure in my chest? Also any good advice for this kind of situation is much appreciated. I don't want to lose my child. I just want her to leave me alone.