Intro: Been a lurker with an occasional comment here for ~6 months, currently a senior in high school about to graduate.

Body: I have 3 plates or so that I can pretty much get with whenever I want, I just need the opportunity, which usually means it's at a party. My issue is a good one to have, but an issue nonetheless, and it's that when I end up hooking up with any of the plates, the others get upset, as they're usally all basically there. It's basically impossible for me to keep them all satisfied.

For example last night I had one girl, plate 1, literally telling me she'd fuck me (she's a virgin) and I ended up getting with two rando's instead (this same thing has happened before except I got with another plate, not a rando), so she was visibly dejected at the end of the night. One of the rando's goes to school and is friends with another plate, so she also seems mad/upset and hasn't responded to snapchats, which she always does, and I'm literally just trying to get her bag back to her.

The recent post about balancing alpha traits with beta had good info in it, and I'd definitely recommend reading if you haven't (https://m.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4lgjjc/being_100_alpha_with_women_is_good_mixing_alpha/ ) But i don't even know how I could do that in situations like this. I sort of feel bad cuz I don't want to hurt these girls and would like to keep them as plates, but It seems like it may be getting to the point where I've been too alpha.

Thanks guys, I was thinking about it the other day and honestly going from the old me, someone who just didn't understand girls, to now is amazing. Also uh any fingering tips would be appreciated lol (like getting better at finding clit easily, knowing if you're at the g spot). I'm not fucking clueless but some of you definitely have more experience. Thanks