I need you guys. I'm a longtime subscriber but a first time poster. Here is the short story because I'm drunk. I have 3 best friends that i love and would do anything for. Anthony, Amber (married to Anthony), and Lauren. Problem is I'm in love with Lauren. She's one of my best friends and a crucial part of the group. I getit "spin more plates" but I'm already spinning 3 and am very successful 25 yr old making great money. I get that i have oneitis but don't know how to solve it. I can't drop her, she is an integral part of my friends and family. Monk mode is not an option and more plates doesn't seem to be working. I'm feeling lost and need you guys to hurt me good, with a nice, big, redpill antibiotic shot. I'll tell you now I'm going to probably argue in the comments but let me know what you think.

So how do you solve oneitis when you can't get away but plate and SMV improvement are not fixing the situation.?