Im new to red pill but the biggest change i realised was to stop thinking about your perfect little scenario. It will never happen as you imagine it. Even if it does, it'll happen so fast you better be prepared to enjoy it.

Whether your plotting how to get a girl or a promotion, nothing is done until its done. Dont look at her pics dreaming, dont imagine your new job til you've signed that contract. If you avheive your goal or fail your only option is to push harder. Never be comfortable.

Our imagination and regrets are powerful and they are there to remind you where you have done well or where you have failed. Either way, move on, learn and improve. Its all you have control over.