Hey guys! Have been on a dating app for a month with pretty decent success, and also helped to improve my texting game. There was this one Bonita Applebum that showed interest right off the bat.

Here's my dilemma: I live in Illinois, while she lives in Indiana, but close to the state line. I don't have a car, but she does. We both still live with our parents, but I'm planning to move out next month.

I'm pretty confident that I can get a k-close or even an f-close, but the issue is that I have 0 privacy at home and she lives in another state, so it'll be back and forth.

We're actually going on a date later this evening and she's picking me up. Should I even try to go to her place, but just call an uber to get back home? This really seems like a hassle...